Don’t be a Brat

Variety adds spice to life.  Some Doms love bratty subs that give
them an excuses to beat them.  Some subs love to be bratty to
challenge one’s authority and test their Dom.  I am not down with either: subs that challenge my authority I find super annoying.  And worse, a serious challenge to my authority can provoke an over-aggressive response from me if it really gets on my nerves — and for this reason alone I prefer submissive girls.I know, I know, it’s shocking that I prefer submissive girls. Not
that I haven’t had relationships with powerful and successful women
including self-starting entrepreneur types and highly successful
doctors. But I like those types that willing give up control and
don’t fucking test the waters. I want girls that want to be
powerless and submissive.I know that every sub can’t be as submissive as Ashlie…but she is
a spectacular example of submissiveness and more a rolemodel than an achievable goal for most girls. Ha ha, I guess it is kinda like not
every girl has a chance to be as thin as her either– it’s just not
a realistic goal but she can provide thinspiration for a girl to be the best that she can be.

But bratty subs…make me fucking crazy.  I had one girl who constantly

challenged me and looked for opportunities to subtly disobey me.
I don’t like this…nor do I like the kind of Dom I am when
frustrated by such a brat: I can lose it and come down like a
hammer.  This sub was like, “I don’t think you can be hard or rough
enough for me.”  This is a mistake.  Prompting me to go to town on
you is not recommended as would have to be a very rare masochist
indeed to thoroughly enjoy the twisted pains I will inflict upon you.  Trust me…you want me rational and restraining myself.

Giving me a blank cheque and saying do your worst makes me fearful of rape and torture charges after the fact. So I’ll say it again just to be clear: don’t test me unless you have an extremely high
tolerance for pain and desire Insex styled torture scenes for days.

I am also a twisted bastard and will want to crush your bratty mind into mush — and I worry about inflicting psychological as well
as physical harm upon you.   Piss me off and I will make
you say the safeword.

Worse, I will brutally abuse you and care less about your feelings
because you were being a fucking brat and deserve punishment. This
is not a good mindset for me to be in.  I wholeheartedly prefer the
loving kindness of accepting the subs limits and enjoying pushing
her to them but not beyond because I care for her deeply.   I enjoy
the play of getting her to the limit…no matter where that limit is
(ok, I will get bored as fuck with nothin’ but prudish limits but
then again, you’d  normally be weeded out by me via simple
conversation way before you got to the point where I am confused why
you don’t wish to be tied up.

I am a sadist though so I enjoy inflicting pain and you
disrespecting me and pushing me to ‘do my worst’ is like giving an
alcoholic a magnum bottle of grain alcohol because you like it when
he’s a little tipsy.

I will give an example that I’m not to proud of…a bratty slave
broke free of my restraints by literally breaking

 

free and wrecking
some equipment in the process while she was unattended. When I
entered the room, she attacked me saying that, “You’re too soft
hearted and I’m going to Domme you instead” as she grabbed at me.

I fucking saw red and grabbed her flesh on her back and dug my nails in hard enough to bruise and I grabbed her throat with my free hand and choked her as I tripped her down to floor.  Using knees to keep
her down I started to hogtie her while raking her back with my nails and slapping her hard.   With her hotied I flipped her over and glared at her with fury in my eyes and said, “You want harder? How about some predicament bondage” and I clamped her with some fierce clamps.

The thoughts that were going through my head came fast and devious.
I quickly formulated a plan on how to abuse this slut. “I’m going to
beat the fuck out of you during it too. Tell me you want that you
fucking annoying brat.”  I glared at her…and she burst into tears
and said the safeword instead.

And I had barely started.

I was fucking mad too…and the safeword did little to quench my
desires…but she was damn lucky she had it. So we took a break and
I enlisted the help of another girl that was in the house to
supervise after we had some tea…to make sure I kept my emotions
and desires in check.  I was rough on her…but no where near as
rough as I could have been nor even as rough as a normal session
with certain painsluts.   Basically, she was in way over her head
and was really wanting  to say ‘a little bit hard please’ –but
underestimated me by a massive amount as this was our first play
session and so I was being really gentle with her and she was an
experienced sub so her being bratty was…a bad call on her part.

Still, afterwards, I didn’t want to play with this brat ever again.
I wanted to hurt her. I wanted to see her weep and beg for mercy…
and respond by tightening the bonds and putting pepper spray on her
clit.

And so I see brats as extremely disrespectful and sucky.  I don’t want to play with them and find it extremely difficult to form and emotional connection with them…something that is really easy to do
with a talented and truly submissive girl!  But being a brat makes me want to terrorize the girl and abolish any part of them that wants to be bratty due to pure fear.  And that is not cool. Not cool at all. I can deal with some mild brattiness  but brazen brats are
such a bad fit for me that I’ve turned on my heal and walked away from a super hot girl I was having a moment with at a fetish club and just plain walk away when she said, with pride I might add, that she was known for being really bratty.   That was a recipe for
disaster.

I find it funny as submissive girls that truly want to serve and are
looking for approval has such a heartwarming effect on me that it
dramatically reduces my sadistic urges while opening my heart.   I
fall in love with deeply submissive girls who live to serve and
cum…and sometimes it hardly seems necessary to beat them at all as
they are in the most desirable state already.

I have never really lost control on a brat but I fear it could
happen.  I don’t like being out of control nor the thought of
hurting someone nor making them endure anything that isn’t
consensual.  And since I know brats can aggravate the situation I
tend to avoid them for our collective well being.

And that is why I prefer deeply submissive girls to brats.  And even
if you are tempted to be a brat around me…please don’t. I would be
more than happy to rationally negotiate a rougher scene for you. But
being a brat is just inviting trouble.


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