This simple trick helps you tell Domme from sub without having to ask. Just say, “Hold my flogger please.” Then watch the response.
This is the easiest way to quickly tell a sub from a Dom without advertising that you may be interested in jumping the poor submissive and making her cry for hours.
Simply task them with holding your flogger. If she takes it and holds it like this:
Basically, anyway where she holds it ‘for you’ to take back from her when you ask: she’s a sub.Then she is a submissive. Obviously, there are many less overt ways she can hold it for you than this, but generally, she holds the flogger in a way that she cannot immediately use it.
However, if you ask her to hold your flogger and she holds it like this: